Sex and Intimacy Archives

What is the Ideal Relationship Timeline?

Darci Johnson — Thu, 27 Aug 2026 14:52:51 +0000

It can be hard to know when it’s the “right” time to define the relationship, to move in, to take the next step. To answer the question, “what is the ideal relationship timeline?”, we surveyed 23 members of our Matchmaking Company team.

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Love-Bombing: A Guide to Recognizing Manipulative Behavior

Darci Johnson — Mon, 13 Jul 2026 15:04:43 +0000

Love-bombing can be a confusing and emotionally draining experience. By understanding the signs and being mindful of your own boundaries, you can protect yourself from manipulative behavior.

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What Does Cheating Look Like? 6 Types of Infidelity

Darci Johnson — Wed, 08 Jul 2026 15:21:51 +0000

Each person has their own definition of infidelity based on their experiences. While certain behaviors might be seen as unfaithful by some, they may not be by others. The important thing is for both partners to feel secure with the established boundaries and stay within them. Understanding these different kinds of infidelity can help you to recognize them in your past and future relationships.

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Situationships: Everything You Need to Know

Darci Johnson — Tue, 07 Jul 2026 15:14:41 +0000

Ever been involved with someone in a way that isn’t quite a relationship, but it’s definitely more than casual dating? That’s a situationship. Unlike traditional relationships, situationships are defined by their ambiguity. This kind of connection is a romantic or sexual relationship that lacks clear boundaries or commitment. While most long-term couples have a talk to define the relationship at some point, a situationship thrives on a lack of definition.

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Emotional Distance is a Silent Relationship Killer

Darci Johnson — Thu, 09 Apr 2026 15:04:41 +0000

Emotional distance settles in slowly, between conversations, beneath routines, inside the spaces where connection used to live. More often than not, it’s the reason relationships begin to feel lonely, even when two people are still very much together.

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This Is Why Physical Touch Is So Important

Matchmaking Team — Thu, 26 Mar 2026 15:02:30 +0000

If physical affection resonates deeply with you, it may be your primary love language. Understanding this about yourself can help you communicate your needs more clearly and build healthier relationships.

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Bids For Connection: How Small Moments Shape Your Relationships

Darci Johnson — Thu, 12 Feb 2026 16:01:58 +0000

A bid for connection is any action that aims to get a positive response from another person. This can include a simple smile, a question, a touch, or a request for help. The concept was popularized by Dr. John Gottman, a psychologist known for his work on marital stability and relationship analysis. Gottman

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Should I Have Sex on the First Date? Pros and Cons

Darci Johnson — Thu, 05 Feb 2026 15:58:20 +0000

Many people feel conflicted about sex on a first date. That conflict usually comes from holding more than one emotional truth at the same time. Wanting closeness while also wanting to protect oneself is a very human struggle.

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How to Have the Sex Talk With Your New Partner

Matchmaking Team — Thu, 25 Dec 2025 16:00:09 +0000

It's important to have an open discussion with your partner about each other's sexual needs, but the topic can be hard to discuss early on in a relationship. Join Genevieve Gresset, Master Certified Matchmaker/guest star of Married at First Sight UK, and Heather Drury, Certified Dating/Relationship Coach, as they discuss talking about sex, the when and how of discussing sex, and why this leads to a more intimate connection.

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What is PDA? Navigating Public Displays of Affection

Darci Johnson — Thu, 28 Aug 2025 15:00:40 +0000

Public displays of affection are a normal part of many relationships. They can strengthen your bond, reduce stress, and show the world that you're happy together. Whether you love or loathe PDA, just remember to respect each other's comfort levels and be mindful of your surroundings.

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