Life is better with love.

Professional matchmaking for relationship-minded singles, with vetted local matches and real support from a dedicated team.

Life is better
with love.

Professional matchmaking for relationship-minded singles.

Two professional matchmakers collaborating over a laptop in a bright office

State MatchMaking Company is the largest brick-and-mortar dating service in the United States.

Our clients are relationship-minded singles who are looking for the right person to share life with. Family-owned and operated since 1999, we are the experts in traditional matchmaking.

Client Love Stories

Every love story is unique and special. These couples were willing to share their personal matchmaking stories and reveal how they found success.

What we offer singles

Trained Staff

We are committed to employing the most experienced staff in the dating industry. While others are focused on AI Matchmaking, we focus on training and certifying our team of dating experts. We employ the most certified matchmakers of any company in the United States.

Background Screening

Unlike other dating companies, we put your safety as our top priority. That’s why all new clients complete a background check. With us, you can date with peace of mind.

Curated Matches

For us, matchmaking is more than just meeting the right person. Our comprehensive approach helps our clients to both create and maintain healthy, happy, and lasting relationships.

Date Coaching

Our coaching staff is certified by the famous Love Doctor herself, Dr. Terri Orbuch. Every day, our coaches help singles discover the power of healthy, lasting love.

Why Matchmaking Works.

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Privacy, background screenings, and date coaching are just some of the reasons singles choose to work with State MatchMaking Company. Everyone is unique, which is why we focus on a human-driven process. Learn what others enjoyed about working with our team.

Find a local matchmaking office near you

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Matching Options

We’re the largest brick-and-mortar matchmaking service in the United States. With 47 locations nationwide, our team is focused on local singles. You’re never far from the beginning of something beautiful with State MatchMaking Company.

Find a local matchmaking office near you

Singles connecting over coffee at an outdoor cafe

Matching Options

With the largest brick-and-mortar network of matchmaking offices in the United States, we focus on local singles. Plus, with 47 locations in the US, our clients can choose multiple locations for their matching search. Ask your local New Client Advisor about nationwide vs. local only matchmaking.

Our Happy Clients

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Happy Hold Letters written by clients

When a client decides put their program on hold, because they want to focus on dating a match we made, it’s called a Happy Hold. We ask clients to write a letter to their matchmaking team to let them know what they loved about their match. Some of those letters are published here, with names changed or redacted for privacy.

from the experts

Feeling unsure about dating again is more common than you think. Our team has guided singles through this stage for decades, offering clear, grounded advice shaped by real experience and trusted research. If you are ready to explore what a healthy connection can look like, our experts are here to help you take the next step.